So I finished Everything is Illuminated by Jonathan Safran Foer, and we had our book club discussion about it this past week. I had planned to fix something Ukrainian to eat (since that is the main setting of the book), blueberry dumplings (pyrogis) specifically, but the night before the discussion I had a bit of a bug and was just too tired to do it. Instead, I fixed some leftover apple/potato/cranberry dumplings that had come with one of our Tofurky Holiday Feasts. They were enjoyed by all, and thankfully our gracious host fixed a pear and apple cobbler that was absolutely delicious. We also had decorations – a friend and I made a garland of blue butterflies, to represent the blue butterflies that flocked to the Trachimday parade floats. I wish I would have taken a picture of it when it was hung up!
I always take notes with any book that I read, but I try to especially focus on them when the book was chosen for the book club. This book was also a bit confusing, what with the broken English and multiple narratives, so it helped to write some things down as I went through. One of the main themes that we discussed from the book was that of family and history. The book seems to say that we are all connected to each other due to our histories. In the book, Jonathan meets Alex and Alex’s grandfather as part of his search for Augustine, a woman his own grandfather knew. Later on in the story, we discover that there are further connections between Jonathan’s ancestors and Alex’s ancestors that neither party knew about prior to that journey.
I wrote down a lot of quotations from the book that really seemed to speak to me. I’m just going to list those here:
One day you will do things for me that you hate. That is what it means to be a family.
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What is being awake if not interpreting our dreams, or dreaming if not interpreting our wake?
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If we find her. – We will find her. — Probably not. — Then why do we search?
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I wouldn’t want a boy to think I was pretty unless he was the kind of boy who thought I was pretty.
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They [Brod's art that she created] were good and fine, but not beautiful … They are only the best of what exists. [This one hit be because I am such a perfectionist regarding the things I create. I need to remember that it may not be perfect, but it is the only one of its kind that exists, and that is because of me.]
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But she [the dog, Sammy Davis Jr. Jr.] would not eat your glasses. She is not an animal. [I loved this one because there is so much confusion on the Ukrainians' part about Jonathan's vegetarianism, and they just cannot understand why he would not eat meat. That oblivion just seems so ironic when compared to how the dog is not seen the same way.]
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But there are so many things I can’t give you. – But there are so many things you can.
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Family are the people who must make you feel ashamed when you are deserving of shame.
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Your wedding day is no time to be comfortable.
I think that in these quotations, and in the book as a whole, the author really conveyed what it means to be a part of a family, and how families really do have a group history of sorts. Also, for a young writer (I believe he was 25 at the time this book was written), Foer was able to capture what it means to get older and remember your history, just as well as he was able to capture the idealism and self-centeredness of youth.
If you choose to read the book, do try to stick with it. It is confusing at first, but about halfway through things really started becoming connected and moving along. It is full of humor, but it is also full of sadness, and I think that the humor is maybe what makes it bearable for us to deal with the sadness. There’s also a movie version, starring Elijah Wood, which was all right but changed some key aspects of the book. Not bad, and it did help some of my understanding, but the book is much better.